Asked to list what defines us, what makes us who we are, I think our beliefs would comprise most of the list. We conduct ourselves according to our beliefs. And we believe our beliefs are correct, that's why we believe them; it'd be clinically neurotic to disbelieve what we believe.
We say all the time we want to know the truth, but the truth is: the truth is absolutely not what we want to know. What we want is confirmation of our belief. Confirmation reinforces our concept of self, strengthens the integrity of who we believe we are. If actual truth happens to coincide with that, then we say we want the truth. But where actual truth conflicts with belief we discard the truth, because disagreement with what we believe means disagreement with our sense of who we are. Disagreement diminishes our sense of self worth. So we resist it.
There's no possibility any mind can possess so much knowledge everything believed is true; far more common is the gaps in our knowledge mean that much new information will conflict with our belief. In reconciling these conflicts we virtually always take the path that strengthens us instead of the path that would seem to diminish us, and so deny the new information is true. And we sustain the denial even as the truth imposes adverse circumstances as a consequence of the denial.
Life winds up not being much fun.
I think the path clear of the dilemma is to not incorporate specific beliefs as the bricks of our identity, but to incorporate the capacity itself to remove, repair or build new bricks as the main engine of identity. Then as existing bricks are found unsound, it doesn't threaten the overall integrity of the structure to change them out.
But that's far easier said than done. But I also believe, even if life isn't more fun, it's a lot less miserable.
We say all the time we want to know the truth, but the truth is: the truth is absolutely not what we want to know. What we want is confirmation of our belief. Confirmation reinforces our concept of self, strengthens the integrity of who we believe we are. If actual truth happens to coincide with that, then we say we want the truth. But where actual truth conflicts with belief we discard the truth, because disagreement with what we believe means disagreement with our sense of who we are. Disagreement diminishes our sense of self worth. So we resist it.
There's no possibility any mind can possess so much knowledge everything believed is true; far more common is the gaps in our knowledge mean that much new information will conflict with our belief. In reconciling these conflicts we virtually always take the path that strengthens us instead of the path that would seem to diminish us, and so deny the new information is true. And we sustain the denial even as the truth imposes adverse circumstances as a consequence of the denial.
Life winds up not being much fun.
I think the path clear of the dilemma is to not incorporate specific beliefs as the bricks of our identity, but to incorporate the capacity itself to remove, repair or build new bricks as the main engine of identity. Then as existing bricks are found unsound, it doesn't threaten the overall integrity of the structure to change them out.
But that's far easier said than done. But I also believe, even if life isn't more fun, it's a lot less miserable.